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Meet other swell-looking cousins from across the Web by first name -- A through L and M through Z.
The website now averages more than 3,000 hits a month! Reach us at


I've switched to a new computer, but my genealogy program ("My Family Ancestry," Version 1.9 by Ronald Duncan) won't work with Windows 7, and attempts to switch to another program have hit a snag -- the gedcom files it makes fail to pick up the source notes. If anyone can offer some tips, please email me.

Announcements & News

Attorney David Palmerlee, left, has been elected president of the University of Wyoming's Board of Trustees. Find out what other family members are up to, reunions, items for sale, lost & found and more.

June 10, 2014

The Attic

Mementos, tools, street signs and the extraordinary. Above, Officer Parmelee poses with members of the Yuba City, Calif., Fire Department for the camera in 1901.

Nov. 1, 2011

Cybercousins' Links

Meet Mason Parmelee, a football player at the University of Rochester, and say hello to scores of your other cybercousins from around the globe. You can browse by first name, A through L and M through Z.

UPDATED: Jan. 1, 2014

Family FAQs

Spelling? What does our name mean? The family in Europe? Those questions and more!

UPDATED: May 25, 2004

Family Photo Album

Henry Lincoln Parmley family, above, gathers for the camera in 1955. We've got hundreds of pictures and portraits of your ancestors and cousins.

June 1, 2013


You'll never guess who sold their home to Sheriff Andy Taylor of
Mayberry. ...You'll also find letters from long ago, our connection to George W. Bush, a sheet music artist, authors and other feature stories about your cousins near and distant. Older features, such as hiking the Parmelee Farm at Killingworth, Conn., are kept in the Archives.

May 1, 2011

Finding Your Twig

Finding or adding your branch of the family tree.

Home, Sweet Home

Our hometown of Guilford, Conn.

Jan. 25, 2004

Memorial Park

Sarah Walton (Parmele) Cooke
of Austin, Texas, has died at the age of 106. An index of obituaries -- more than 350 of them, some with pictures -- beginning in 1995.

June 10, 2014

The Nursery

It's a boy for baseball's Chris Parmelee and wife Amanda. Birth announcements.

June 10, 2014

The Parmelee Family Magazine

Publication has ceased.

Jan.15, 2001

One relative meets President John Quincy Adams and another nearly comes to blows with Theodore Roosevelt. ... And we're compiling a list of those who have served in federal, state and local office.

Dec. 1, 2011

This Old House

This year's old home tour in Wilmington, N.C., included the 1849 Parmele-Williams House, above. Family homes abound around
Guilford, Conn., and other Connecticut towns. We've also got other homes in the East and West

June 10, 2014

Queries / Lost & Found

Looking for a lost friend or relative? A list of pre-1800 unplaced family members. ... Maybe you can help solve other genealogy puzzles.

April 1, 2010

Your Host

Who is Jim Walters (one busy boy!) and why on earth is he doing this?

Sept. 1, 2012

Email: ParmeleeFamily@gmail.com

News: The Great War's Centennial

A century ago, Europe virtually blew up and took much of the rest of the world along for a conflict that dragged on nearly five years. Eventually more than 40 nations and their colonies were pulled into World War I, which killed more than 9 million soldiers, sailors and airmen, and 5 million civilians. And animals: Of a million horses sent to France, only 62,000 returned to Britain at war's end. Three Tasmanians join "Old Joe" Parmley, right, of South Melbourne, Victoria, in a 1914 photo of an Australian Imperial Force artillery unit.

More than 80 members of the family around the globe served in uniform, as well as nurses and ambulance drivers. Help us add photos to this page. Even an old dog tag turned up a few years ago.

Did your American ancestor register for the World War I draft? I have 688 cards filed under our name. The data on them also provide a nice snapshot of the family in 1917-18.

One 'Cabin,' Two Stories

Other cities may lay claim to her historic homes, but Guilford, Conn., is where "Uncle Tom's Cabin" author Harriet Beecher Stowe (1811-1896) connected with the Parmelees:

  • Candace, a slave who was willed to an aging Ebenezer Parmelee [1690-1777; Isaac, John, John] and his wife, Anna, lived at the Hyland House. Years later, as a free woman, it's likely she was the same woman who helped young Harriett understand that Africans, too, were human.
  • When the First Congregational Church bought John Parmelee Sr.'s home lot at the north end of the Village Green, the 1740 Benton-Beecher house stood there. Rossiter Parmelee [1783-1855; Nathaniel, William, Joseph, Isaac, John, John] and a team of 70 oxen moved it to a new foundation -- and turned it into a tavern.

Jan. 1, 2014


Photo Album

We're pretty sure that one of the photos in this album is that of Robert Parmley (1789-1875), who was the father of 24 -- count 'em, 24! -- children. But just who the rest of these people are has us stumped. Can you help us identify any of them?

Maybe you can solve some of these other photo mysteries ...


Tombstone Puzzler

Who was Dr. John Parmele (ca1801-1844) -- and why is his tombstone sitting in the basement of a Milwaukee church?
New clue: A Wisconsin newspaper obituary asks that newspapers in St. Lawrence County, N.Y., reprint the story.

On the Streets Where You Live

The most curious street I've run across is Parmalee Drive in Kent, Ohio, from where my own kin hail -- but my family spells it Parmelee -- go figure! Hawthorne, N.J., recently renamed part of its Parmelee Avenue for Officer John L. Meyers who was struck and killed in 1948 while directing traffic after a Labor Day fireworks show.

Compton, Calif.: Parmelee Avenue
Costa Mesa, Calif.: Parmley Lane
Los Angeles, Calif.: Parmelee Avenue
Indian Hills, Colo.:
Parmalee Gulch Road
Durham, Conn.: Parmelee Hill Road
New Haven, Conn.: Parmalee Avenue
Haddam, Conn.: Parmalee Lane
Hamden, Conn.: Parmalee Drive
Newtown, Conn.:
Parmalee Hill Road
Newtown, Conn.:
Parmalee Park Place
Port Charlotte, Fla. Parmely Street
Punta Gorda, Fla.: Parmely Street
Conley, Ga.: Parmalee Path
Chicago, Ill.:
Frank Parmelee Way
Rockford, Ill.: Parmele Street
Waukegan, Ill.: Parmalee Place
Nineveh, Ind.: Parmalee Drive
Monticello, Ky.:
Parmley Street
Nicholasville, Ky.: Parmelee Circle
Parmleysville, Ky.
Parmleysville Road
Wayne County, Ky. Parmely-Griggs Loop
Eliot, Maine: Parmley Lane
Acton, Mass.: Parmley Drive
Boston, Mass.: Parmelee Street
Freeport, Mich.: Parmalee Road

Middleville, Mich.: Parmalee Road
Peterborough, N.H.: Parmalee Drive

Elizabeth, N.J.: Parmalee Place

Fair Lawn, N.J.: Parmelee Avenue
Hawthorne, N.J.: Parmelee Avenue
Summit City, N.J. Parmley Place

Gallup, N.M.: Parmelee Street

Leroy, N.Y.:
Parmelee Road
Mohegan Lake, N.Y.: Parmly Court
Mohegan Lake, N.Y. Parmly Road
Cary, N.C.: Parmalee Court
Castle Hayne, N.C.: Parmele Road
Wrightsville Beach, N.C.: Parmele Boulevard
Wrightsville Beach, N.C.: Parmale Drive

Cleveland, Ohio: Parmelee Avenue
Elyria, Ohio: Parmely Avenue
Hudson, Ohio: Parmelee Drive
Kent, Ohio: Parmalee Drive
Perry, Ohio: Parmly Road
Tallmadge, Ohio: Parmelee Drive
Twinsburg, Ohio: Parmalee Drive
Seven Hills, Ohio: Parmalee Drive
Youngstown, Ohio: Parmelee Avenue
Banks, Ore,: Parmley Avenue
Seven Hills, Ore.: Parmalee Drive
Murrells Inlet, S.C.: Parmelee Drive
Myrtle Beach, S.C.: Parmley Drive
Whites Creek, Tenn.: Parmley Lane
Cypress, Texas: Parmley Creek Court
Buffalo, Wyo.:
Parmelee Street

Did we miss your street?
Email me; photos welcome!


Here we honor those family members in uniform, from Colonial times to the Afghanistan and Iraq wars. Details are being added to those on the rosters for the Revolutionary and Civil wars. Pictures of Revolutionary War soldiers' headstones are also being added. And we're thankful for your submissions, such as this one from Allan Ray Parmley [Randolph Hay, Roland Duvall, Miles, Emerson Bell, Garner, John, Giles, Hiel, Nathaniel, Nathaniel, John, John], who stands at the headstone of great- great- great- great- grandfather John Parmley (1762-1848), who fought in the Revolution. ...

Historian David Blight, below, looks at Uriah Nelson Parmelee (1841-1865), a Yale student, as Part of the "Yale and the Civil War Sesquicentennial Series."

Colonial wars Revolution
War of 1812 Mexican War
Civil War War with Spain
World War I World War II
Korean War Vietnam War
Gulf War Afghan War
Iraq War Others

UPDATED: Jan. 1, 2014

Genealogy: A Break in Sussex!

Not only have I stumbled across fresh 17th century data on the family, but the family has turned up in a new parish! The burial record of Anne Howell, the first of John Sr.'s five wives, has turned up at St. Wulfran, right, an ancient church in Ovingdean, a village just east of Brighton in East Sussex. A bishops transcripts entry for "Annie Parmely" includes a notation that she was John's wife of "St. Miychells in Lewes." Buried Feb. 3, 1629, she was John's wife of nearly 21 years and the mother of at least seven children, only one of whom -- John Jr. -- survived childhood. Anne was the daughter of John and Anne (Geare) Howell of Rottingdean, which is just east of Ovingdean.

St. Wulfran, the "little church" first mentioned in the 1086 Domesday Book, is a Norman building whose tower was built about 1216 and contains a bell made in 1430. The church is about eight miles south and west of Lewes. Until now, all records for the Parmelees who helped found Guilford, Conn., in 1639 have been in the Lewes parishes of All Saints (1572 to 1620) and St. Michael (1632 to 1638). Anne's burial is the first to fall in that 12-year gap -- let's hope there's more!

The Early Generations

The pieces are slowly coming together on the first generations to live in America and the last to live in England and continental Europe. The vast majority of the North American Parmelee families of all spellings trace their roots back to Johns Sr. and Jr. who arrived in Connecticut in the 1630s. These families helped found Guilford, where the Congressional Church, left, now sits on the site of our family's first home. The rest of the families are related to those who came to Pennsylvania in the 1840s.

UPDATED: Jan. 1, 2013

A list of the pre-1800 "unplaced" Parmelees.

A Few Notables

Did you know that members of our family include ...

  • Le Roy "Bud" Parmelee (1907-1981), who pitched for the New York Giants, St. Louis Cardinals, Chicago Cubs and the Philadelphia Athletics? His widow, Ortha, recently died at 99
  • Chris Parmelee, who plays first base/outfield for the Minnesota Twins? He was selected in the first round of the 2006 amateur draft and played for Florida and Connecticut farm teams.
  • Grace Parmelee, who in 1988 became the first female Asian-American warrant officer in the U.S. Coast Guard?
  • Oakland Raiders cheerleader Michelle Parmley?
  • Bernie Parmalee (1967- ) who played for the Miami Dolphins and New York Jets and is now a coach for the Kansas City Chiefs?
  • Football player Jalen Parmele, who played for the Baltimore Ravens?
  • Descendants of Phoebe (Parmelee) Castle (1779-1856), founders of Castle-Cooke, which financed the Dole pineapple industry, are buried at the Royal Palace in Honolulu?
  • James C. Parmelee, a major contributor to the Washington National Cathedral in our nation's capital?
  • Dentist Levi Spear Parmley (1790-1859), who, in 1819, was the first to advocate flossing? Brothers Eleazer (1797-1874), also a dentist, has been honored with a medal, right.
  • Architect Julia Morgan (1872-1957) who designed William Randolph Hearst's castle at San Simeon, Calif., the Herald-Examiner building in L.A. and many YWCAs? (Her mother was Eliza W. Parmelee.)
  • Parmly Billings, whose grief-stricken family funded a library in his name in Billings, Mont., when he died at age 25? (His mother was Julia Parmly.)
  • Charles Roy Parmelee (1896-1931), who piloted the Prince of Wales -- later King Edward VIII, who abdicated -- during the prince's tour of Central America?
  • Composer Charles E. Ives (1874-1954), whose mother was Mary Elizabeth Parmelee?

Established March 27, 1997.